BAN Program

BAN Program – Beyond Affairs Network

Sessions that are available to download and view will say “add to cart”, the other sessions are being created and will be added to the website in the near future.  

Introduction to BAN

Introduction to BAN – Audio Session
Introduction to BAN-listener guide
Feb 2015 BAN member invite

Session 1 – Your Healing Story Begins
Featured Book: My Husband’s Affair Became the Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me
Session 1 Listener Guide
Session 1 Listener Guide Answer Key
Discussion Questions for My Husband’s Affair
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Session 2 – Understanding Why Affairs Happen (and the patterns)
Featured Book: Not “Just Friends”: Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity
Session 2-Why Affairs Happen-Listener Guide
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Session 3 – How Do I Change My Spouse? 
Featured Book (Christian): Love Must Be Tough: New Hope for Marriages in Crisis
Featured Book 2nd Choice: Divorce Busting: A Step-by-Step Approach to Making Your Marriage Loving Again
Session 3 Listener Guide

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Session 4 – Should I Stay or Should I Go? 
Featured Book: Should I Stay Or Go? : How Controlled Separation (CS) Can Save Your Marriage
Session 4 Listener Guide

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Session 5 – Overcoming Anger 

Featured Book: Love Without Hurt: Turn Your Resentful, Angry, or Emotionally Abusive Relationship into a Compassionate, Loving One

Session 6 – Obsessive Thoughts, Anniversaries & Triggers 
Featured Book: Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy

Session 7 – Trusting Again 
Featured Book: The Monogamy Myth: A Personal Handbook for Recovering from Affairs, Third Edition

Session 8 – Rebuilding a Marriage 
Featured Book: The Passion Trap: How to Right an Unbalanced Relationship

Session 9 – Boundaries & Codependency 
Featured Book: Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself

Session 10 – Rebuilding Self-Esteem 
Featured Book: The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You’re Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are

Session 11 – Acceptance: From Sadness to Joy 
Featured Book (Christian): Healing for Damaged Emotions (David Seamands Series)

Session 12 – Forgiveness 
Featured Book: Forgive for Good

Session 13 – Navigating Divorce 
Featured Book: Clean Break: How to Divorce with Dignity and Move On with Your Life

Session – 14 – Excuse Me, Your Life is Waiting 
Featured Book: Excuse Me, Your Life Is Waiting: The Astonishing Power of Feelings